@sam@masto.dotsod.com #JordanPeterson is a pretty good role model, but it's kind of a shame that he's more or less the only one the incel community has. (I find it a bit humorous that you compared him and #AndrewTate since they have nothing in common except approval for heterosexual sex lol)
I'm sure there are other good role models out there but, probably because they're genuinely good people, they don't attract nearly as much attention.
Someone like #Ruslan for example would probably be the first person I'd point an incel to at this point: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bgtcngXCsgk